How to Get Over the Loss of a Friendship

Recovering from the loss of a friendship is difficult and painful. When a friend holds a special place in your life and you share secrets, hopes, and dreams, a loss affects every part of you spiritually, physically, and emotionally.

In my experience, I have found there is no shortcut to healing from the loss of a friendship. Losing a friend is hard and recovery can take a long time.

When you lose a friend due to a change in circumstances, conflict, or death, there is a hole in your heart that was once occupied by their presence in your life.

When a Close Friendship Ends

When I was in grade school, I had two best friends-Vickie and Milisa-one lived on the left of my house and the other on the right.

We played records, Candy Land, hopscotch, and jump rope. We rode banana seat bikes and bought ice cream from the man in the dingy van with a bell.

These neighbors were my first best friends, and they were special to me. I still have vivid memories of our time together.

Everything was perfect in our small world, and I never dreamed our close friendship would end until the day Vickie’s family moved. I remember they bought a nice, new brick house about 20 minutes away from our neighborhood.

In my young mind, Vickie could have moved to another country. I saw Vickie once or twice after her family moved and then we lost touch.

When a close friendship ends, it is broken…lost. When a friendship ends suddenly, there is an unexpected ache associated with the person’s absence.

Although Milisa and I remained friends and continued to share experiences, I remember the special place in my heart that my short-lived friendship with Vickie held, and the pain I felt when a close friendship ends.

How to Accept a Lost Friendship

My daughter recently experienced a lost friendship at school and mentioned to me, “This feels awful. I hope it never happens again”.

I wish I could have told her it would be the last time she would feel rejected or betrayed and lose a friend.

But that is not reality. It grieved me to tell her that rejection and lost friendship are inevitable; loss never gets easy to understand.

With my friend Vickie, when our friendship ended suddenly, it was unnatural to disconnect. Regardless of our age; it is sad to say goodbye to a friend.

For a long time, I naively thought that losing a friend, at least through conflict, was preventable if I did the right thing.

If I was a good, loyal friend then all of my friendships would endure and pain would be avoided.

There are a couple of problems with my thoughts on a lost friendship.

  • First of all, I will say or do the wrong thing and cause someone to be hurt, and I cannot control if they chose to forgive me.
  • Secondly, others may hurt or betray me and I may struggle with moving past it.

Either scenario can end or permanently alter a friendship.

Regardless of your best efforts, there are reasons people choose to end friendships such as unavoidable changes in life or circumstances outside your control.

Are you grieving a relationship that has deteriorated? Whether it dissolved in a long, tangled mess over the years or conflict erupted out of nowhere, broken relationships hurt. Maybe it felt good to get out of that relationship then, but now, as you lie awake staring at the ceiling, regret begins seeping into your bones.

Maybe you long for reconciliation, but it hasn’t come even after years of praying. Dear child, it is grievous when our actions caused a broken bridge or when those we love don’t respond to our outreached hand.”

Christina Vinson

A broken friendship can be very sad and hard to process, but in life, the loss of friendships is also inevitable.

How to accept that a friendship is over:

As difficult as it is to accept that a friendship is over, it doesn’t mean you have to hide behind a wall of pain and close yourself off from other relationships.

  • You can recover from the pain of losing a friend
  • You can grow in your love and trust in God
  • You can learn from the loss of friendship and become a better more authentic friend to others.

You can seek out new friends, and embrace the possibility that a new friendship may blossom.

Although it is sometimes inevitable, losing a friend does not reflect your value or ability to be loved by others. God is always your friend and sees and knows your worth. You can move on and find a new place of belonging.

Lady looking into water-Loss of a Friendship

Why Do We Lose Friends? 

Why do we lose friends? Although there are as many answers to this question as there are friendships, from my experience, here are four reasons why we lose friends.

4 Ways You Lose Friends

#1 You lose a friend due to uncontrollable circumstances such as a move or a finished assignment.

If possible, you can continue the friendship in a new way. When we lose a friend to circumstances we still experience loss, but it is not usually connected to deep pain or hurt.

#2 You lose a friend after one or both people change and the friendship naturally fades due to differences in life paths.

It can help you accept the loss of a friendship when you understand that some people come into our lives for a season. Recovery from losing a friend because of slow separation seems less painful because it is not one big loss or blow.

#3 You lose a friend because of conflict.

When conflict causes the loss of a friendship it usually causes deep sorrow. When you walk in love and forgiveness it seems like losing friends to misunderstandings should not happen, but it does. We are humans working out our salvation day by day, so disappointment, unmet expectations, boundary issues, and unforgiveness lead to the loss of friendships.

It can help you move on after the loss of a friendship if you understand what went wrong. In some situations, it is a simple misunderstanding that can be unpacked and possibly lead to reconciliation. In other situations, we will have to grieve losing a friend and never know exactly what went wrong.

#4 You lose a friend due to death.

Losing a friend to death is very painful and very final. You need time to grieve and celebrate the love that was shared and sometimes seek outside counsel.

Nancy Guthrie writes in Hearing Jesus Speak into your Sorrow:

“I don’t know what has brought sorrow into your life. Maybe you too, have stood by a grave and said good-bye. Or maybe you have had to bury your dreams for a future with someone you love… In times of sorrow and disappointment, everything we believe can be called into question, can’t it? Yet if we turn away from God, there really is no other place to go for meaning or peace. Anywhere away from Him is hopelessly dark and empty.”

How do you Get Over the Loss of a Friendship?

When my friend Vickie moved, I was disappointed and sad. She had been an important part of my daily life, but I had to move on and, like most children, rebounded quite quickly.

But as an adult, it is not as quick or painless to get over losing a friend. Here are some thoughts on how do you get over the loss of a friendship:

  • It is easier to process the loss of friendship when it is not connected to a wound.
  • It takes time to get over the loss of a friendship, but when there is no blame and forgiveness is involved, the transition is easier. It requires accepting the change and adapting to a new reality without that friend in your life.
  • Getting over losing a friend due to conflict usually takes longer, but if there is some type of closure, it helps us recover and grow from the experience.

Closure after Losing a Friend

Closure after losing a friend can include a conversation with each other, a note that is either sent or used as a journal for only yourself, or a meeting with a third person to repair or end the friendship in the best possible way.

Closure after losing a friend can be difficult especially when hurt feelings are involved, but it is a necessary part of moving on.

Once you have done everything in your power to reconcile or walk away from the loss of a  friendship, you can begin the healing of your own spirit.

Jesus and Judas Had a Relationship That Was Lost

Jesus’ friendship story brings me hope, comfort, and provides insight. He was a good friend who still experienced great loss and betrayal.

When Jesus walked around with his disciples for three years, He probably created memories and deep attachments. Even Jesus and Judas had a relationship.

I wonder if Jesus knew and saw traits in Judas during their relationship that would prepare Him for the loss of the friendship? Based on scripture, He did.

“But Jesus knew who would betray him. That is what he meant when he said, “Not all of you are clean.”

John 13:11 NLT

Even after Judas’ betrayal, Jesus went on to fulfill his purpose on the Cross and extend mercy to those around Him until His last breath.

Despite being in excruciating pain as He hung on a cross wrongly accused, some of His last words were merciful,

  “Jesus said,  “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.”

Luke 23:34 NLT

That is remarkable because when you feel betrayed, it is difficult to be gracious as you process your hurt. But as a Christ-follower, be encouraged and walk in the hope that you can move toward forgiveness and continue to love regardless of the reason for losing a friend.

Lady walking alone-Loss of a Friendship

How to Move on from Losing a Friendship: 5 Steps

Regardless of the reason for the loss of friendship, you can grow and become better at relationships if that is what you desire. If you don’t persevere and learn how to move on from losing a friend, you can stay discouraged and stuck.

Here are 5 steps on how to move on from losing a friendship to help you walk out your healing and recovery and discover the power of mercy:

Step 1: Acknowledge the Loss of a Friendship

When you acknowledge the loss of a friendship and the grief associated with it, you can begin to heal. Sometimes we are tempted to fill the void with another person or thing and don’t commit to walking through the loss. This affects your ability to build and maintain healthy relationships. Your healing, after losing a friend, starts with acceptance.

“My flesh and my heart fail; But  God  is  the strength of my heart and my  portion forever.”

Psalm 73:26 NKJV

Step 2: Pray about the Loss of a Friendship

When you process the loss of a friendship with God through prayer, you grow closer to Him. He replaces your sadness with peace and guidance.

“Lord, be gracious  to us; we long for you. Be our strength  every morning,
our salvation  in time of distress.” Isaiah 33:2 NIV

Step 3: Ask a Trusted Friend for Advice after the Loss of a Friendship

When you ask a trusted friend for advice you can process your thoughts and feelings and get clarity. Losing a friend is difficult but gives you an opportunity to grow closer to another friend.

Lisa-Jo Baker writes in her article 7 Ways for Woman to Find Soul Friends:

“I’m so hungry for conversation with someone who knows me and is interested in me beyond a witty tweet or Facebook update. We talk for hours. I didn’t realize how much I had been needing to say, to process out loud, until someone was willing to listen without rush or deadlines.”

Step 4: Give yourself Time to Heal after the Loss of a Friendship

Giving yourself time to heal is a hard step. Patience is not easily acquired especially when you are sitting in a pool of hurt. But time to heal is the only way to truly move on after the loss of a friendship.

“The  Lord  is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those whose spirits are crushed.”

Psalm 34:18 NLT

Step 5: Learn to Forgive after the Loss of a Friendship

Forgiveness is the gift you give to yourself that brings freedom from current pain and space to love and embrace others in life.

Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior.  Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”

Ephesians 4:31-32 NLT

These 5 steps on how to move on after losing a friend help you experience growth through the loss. You can move forward and release the pain and the person from any debt that can cause you to focus on unhealthy emotions.  

You can cover your feelings of vulnerability with the knowledge that you are loved by God.

Bible Verses to Provide Comfort After the Loss of a Friendship

Reading about characters in the Bible, such as Aaron, Jonathan & Caleb, who struggled with their relationships helps you gain perspective.

There are also many encouraging Bible verses that speak of the complexity and reward of friendships. Here are a few that have brought me comfort after the loss of a friendship.

Deuteronomy 31:8 NIV

The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”  

John 16:22 NLT

“So you have sorrow now, but I will see you again; then you will rejoice, and no one can rob you of that joy.”

Matthew 5:4 NLT

“God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”

  How to Grow Closer to God & Comfort Others After Losing a Friend

We don’t always know what caused a friendship to end. As we walk through the healing process and gain wisdom, our scars guide us and help us become a better friend.

One great byproduct of losing a friend is we can grow closer to God and our reliance on Him. We are also able to encourage and comfort others who are going through a similar story.

Through our experience of struggle and loss, we can move into current and new friendships with fresh insight and a stronger identity in Christ. This new confidence helps us love and comfort others.

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 NLT

“All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.”

Have you recently experienced the loss of a friendship? Would love to hear how God has helped you walk through your experience in the comments.

Mary Rooney Armand

Mary Rooney Armand is an Author, Speaker, and Creator of the faith-based blog She helps others grow in their intimacy with Christ and thrive in their relationships. Her work is featured on multiple websites including Woman of Noble Character, Pray with Confidence, and The Brave Women Series. Mary is the author of, “Identity, Understanding, and Accepting Who I Am in Christ” and, “Life Changing Stories” a collaboration with 34 authors sharing stories of God’s faithfulness. Besides writing, Mary leads small groups and speaks at retreats. She directed Kids Hope USA, a mentoring program for children, worked in marketing and sales, and has led mission trips to Honduras. Mary is a life coach with a Bachelor's degree in Marketing and an MBA. She and her wonderful husband Cory live in New Orleans and are the parents of four children, a new daughter-in-law, and two dogs! Connect with Mary on Instagram or Facebook.


  1. Ifeoma Samuel on August 4, 2020 at 12:10 pm

    Very interesting read Mary 😊

    • ginabartonsewell on August 4, 2020 at 8:11 pm

      Very interesting read. My best friend passed away this past March so I thank you for the comforting words.

      • Mary Rooney Armand on August 6, 2020 at 10:07 pm

        Gina, thanks for reading and I hope you found it insightful. I am so sorry for the loss of your friend. That is very difficult to walk through and I pray you are blessed with the Lord’s comfort.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 5, 2020 at 8:25 pm

      Ifeoma, Thanks for stopping by!

  2. ginabartonsewell on August 4, 2020 at 8:09 pm

    Very interesting read. My best friend passed away this past March so I thank you for the comforting words.

  3. Lauren on August 5, 2020 at 4:30 pm

    Thank u for this post! Am going thru it right now! Would appreciate prayers for this if possible please 🙏 Blessings xx

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 5, 2020 at 8:23 pm

      I am so sorry you are going through a loss. It is such a hard time. I will pray for God to comfort you and guide you. Thanks for reading and I hope it was helpful.

  4. Mandy Farmer on August 5, 2020 at 9:10 pm

    wonderful encouragements here. This is something we all have to deal with sooner of later. pinned, schedule on FB page

  5. Carolyn Marie on August 6, 2020 at 4:00 am

    Wow, this is a tough conversation but so real and candid. Thank you for sharing!

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 6, 2020 at 10:09 pm

      Carolyn Marie, thank you for stopping by! It is a difficult conversation, but therapeutic for me to get the discussion started!

    • MJ on August 10, 2020 at 2:45 pm

      I’ve lost many friendships over time. It’s always difficult. Thank you for sharing this!

      • Mary Rooney Armand on August 10, 2020 at 8:40 pm

        MJ, it is always a difficult process. Thanks for stopping by and praying you have some wonderful friends now!

  6. Jessie Q. Synan on August 10, 2020 at 1:34 pm

    This is one of the most timely pieces you could have written. I needed this today as we mourn the loss of a friend. Every type of friendship loss is different, and has its own grief. â¤ï¸

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 10, 2020 at 8:40 pm

      Jessie, So sorry for the loss of your friend. I pray this gave you some helpful insight. Thanks for reading

  7. Teresa Hodge on August 10, 2020 at 3:16 pm

    My church family lost our really young pastor two years ago. He was not only my pastor. I also considered him a close friend. We also taught school together. It has been hard to adjust, but God is always faithful and gracious and has helped myself and our church family keep going faithfully serving Him! 🙌🏼

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 10, 2020 at 8:41 pm

      Teresa, that is so hard. I am sorry for your loss. I pray you continue to find comfort in God’s faithfulness. Thanks for reading.

  8. Ava James on August 10, 2020 at 9:18 pm

    I lost a few friendships but one that impacted me was really hard. But l learnt how to be a better friend. Maybe one day God will bring a close friend like that, until then I will keep asking God to make me that friend. Very good post, thanks Mary!

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 12, 2020 at 7:34 pm

      Ava, that is sad that you lost your good friend. I love that you are working on being a better friend instead of becoming bitter or isolated. I pray that a good friend comes along soon!

  9. Adriana David (@adavid695) on August 11, 2020 at 6:30 pm

    Hi! Thank you so much for talking about this topic! From my own experience, I can attest that there truly is no way to rush the recovery process. However, there are definitely many healthy ways to mourn, thank you for including them!

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 12, 2020 at 7:35 pm

      Adriana, it was a hard to topic to write about but I really felt it was important. Thanks for reading!

  10. Evangeline Samuel on August 11, 2020 at 8:42 pm

    I “lost” a friend last year and it still stings. I had to break it off but it was very painful to do so. However, I knew I acted in obedience to God so I took comfort in that. She handled it beautifully and I was grateful for that but on some days, I find myself missing her and spilling quiet tears.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 12, 2020 at 7:36 pm

      Evangeline, I am sorry you lost a friend. I pray you continue to recover and God brings a new friend along. Thank you for reading!

  11. Donna Miller on August 11, 2020 at 11:08 pm

    One consistent theme I’ve noticed in my life is when I get close to a girlfriend, she will eventually move away. It just happened again about a year ago. It always hurt my heart, and it didn’t seem to matter whether I had heads up ahead of time or if it was sudden. Thank you for this sweet post. â¤

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 12, 2020 at 7:37 pm

      Donna, I am sorry to hear that. When we lived in Houston for a few years, I lost several friends to moves as well. It is never easy regardless of the reason. Praying you find a new friend soon that sticks around for a while.

  12. jonisteinauer on August 13, 2020 at 3:13 pm

    Losing friends can be very hard. It is helpful to realize that not everyone who comes in your life is meant to stay. Sometimes, God removes these people from our lives for our own benefit. We must always trust His better judgment, no matter how painful it may be. Blessings, Joni

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 16, 2020 at 8:16 pm

      Joni, you are right, sometimes it is best for people to leave our life. Trusting God is the way to walk through those situations. Thanks for reading and sharing.

  13. emidiv24 on August 13, 2020 at 9:31 pm

    This article is very awesome. The only best friend that has an everlasting guarantee is Christ, we are all humans, in friendship we can not stay forever whether we like it or not,only God can make a friendship last forever, when we lose friend, it’s not easy to forget about it but God knows what is best for us at any particular point in time.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 16, 2020 at 8:16 pm

      Thank you so much! and I agree only God knows what is best for us.

  14. Timothy R. Berman on August 13, 2020 at 10:27 pm

    It is so difficult to deal with the loss of a good friend. One of the best friends I had of 8 years had to come to an end. I did not want it to come to an end. However, it eventually happened. He was like a dear brother to me and really was there for me. What ended the friendship was how toxic and dysfunctional it became. Too the point we almost got into a physical altercation. After 8 years, going through some real struggles in my life.

    We reconnected when my youngest daughter was an infant and he had not changed. My life had changed – for the better. Today, he is angry, bitter and a hardcore atheist. He still carries his own burdens and it is saddening. Yet, I pray for him on occasion that our Heavenly Father restores his faith and relationship with Christ.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 16, 2020 at 8:18 pm

      Timothy, thanks for sharing your story and I am sorry your friendship had to end. I think it is wonderful that you continue to pray for him. Many blessings!

  15. inthemidstclub on August 15, 2020 at 4:06 pm

    Losing a dear friendship is so hard! That void it leaves is the worst, but I love how you brought it back to Christ being our ultimate friend. Only HE can fill that void. He is the true friend that will never hurt us or leave us. Someone once told me that sometimes we have friends for a season and sometimes they are meant for a lifetime!

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 16, 2020 at 8:19 pm

      Losing friends is hard! Jesus is our only guarantee…thanks for reading and sharing. I actually have a post on the 3 types of friendships that speaks of reason, season and lifetime friends.

  16. Elizabeth Anderson on August 15, 2020 at 10:07 pm

    I lost a friend recently, and even though we see each other still, the heartache makes it difficult to be the same as it used to be.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on August 16, 2020 at 8:20 pm

      Elizabeth, Sometimes losing a friend that you still have to see is the hardest. I am sorry that happened to you and pray you will find comfort in your relationship with Jesus and other friends.

  17. Summer on August 16, 2020 at 1:21 am

    I’ve lost friendships through all four ways you’ve mentioned, and I’ve mourned through each loss. I appreciate your perspective and your words of hope.

  18. Rachel Mayew on August 17, 2020 at 2:29 am

    Thanks for this sweet & comforting post. It is so true that losing a friend doesn’t reflect our true value or our ability to be loved by God or others! We need to remind ourselves of this sometimes!

  19. Lo Tanner on August 17, 2020 at 4:57 pm

    I saw this post and was excited for two reasons. One because you wrote it (I have been following your writing for a while now and am always so encouraged by it) and two because this has ALWAYS been a struggle for me. Which is odd because so many of my friendship are born in church yet I always seem to be the one to take the knife to the back. We moved a couple years ago and I was so hesitant to get back involved in church. But I have met amazing friends and God has been doing a lot of mending in my life. I’m thankful. Thanks for the biblical paper trail you’ve left here! I will be saving this.

  20. Mamie L. Pack on August 17, 2020 at 10:45 pm

    Losing a friend can be hurtful, especially when it ends poorly. Giving yourself time to grieve and allowing God to heal helps to keep our hearts open to other wonderful friendships.

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  25. Lisa Blair on February 12, 2021 at 12:46 pm

    Great insights on friendship and grief when there is loss. I appreciate your vulnerability, Mary. Your blog post spurs me forward in communicating with friends that I moved away from two years ago. I have been writing them once a month, but I was recently wondering if I should continue sending them letters. This post is an encouragement to keep being intentional and sowing into these dear friends. Thanks for sharing.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on February 12, 2021 at 5:24 pm

      Lisa, thank you so much for reading and for your encouragement! I love to write about friendship. I hope you reconnect with your friends!

  26. Maree Dee on February 13, 2021 at 8:34 am

    Thank you for sharing this post with Grace & Truth. Losing a friend is hard. I used to believe all friendships were meant to last for life. So when they didn’t, I didn’t know how to process it. I have learned since then. I even recognize some relationships are only for a season.

    Oh my goodness, I never thought about the friendship Jesus and Judas must have had or the loss Jesus endured by the loss. I always saw the betrayal but not the loss. Thank you for pointing that out.

    Sharing your article on Pinterest. It is excellent.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on February 14, 2021 at 7:00 pm

      Maree, so thankful I found Grace & Truth! Thank you for reading and your added insight. I love to write and talk about friendship; a precious gem in life!

  27. Linda Stoll on February 14, 2021 at 6:03 pm

    Mary, thank you for this thoughtful piece. After 65 years, so many friends have come and gone, for all kinds of reasons. Letting each of them go, wishing them well and meaning it, has been the only way for me to move on.
    Thankfully, God continues to send people into our lives. I’m so grateful. And happy to meet you on this Valentine’s Day evening!

    • Mary Rooney Armand on February 14, 2021 at 7:04 pm

      LInda, thanks for reading! It sounds like you
      have a lot of wisdom. I too have learned so much & love to share about relationships which are a special part of life. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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  30. Denise on November 27, 2021 at 7:20 am

    I just read your post. Good advice.
    I lost a dear friend as a result of my husband trying to help a couple (we had been friends with both for 15 years) during their separation when he took a call from the husband to lend an ear. Knowing there are two sides to every story, he felt it fair to listen. I asked him not to and told him that she would see it as a betrayal but he was convicted as a Christian to listen and did it anyway. Sadly, I was right and she cut off our friendship even after I tried to explain that I was not involved, asked him not to, and did not want to get in the middle. I’ve always believed that being wrongly accused in any situation is one of the worst things to happen because no matter what you do or say, someone else’s mind is made up and you can’t changed that. It’s very tough to reconcile how you become carnage in the wake of a misunderstanding. Leaning on God who is faithful and constant is the only way for me to move forward.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on November 28, 2021 at 7:04 pm

      Denise, that sounds like a painful situation. I pray God heals your heart and guides you to forgiveness. It is so hard to lose a good friend especially when you didn’t do anything wrong. I hope God’s word and presence can lead you to peace. Thanks for reading and sharing your story with me!

  31. Jessica Combs on January 27, 2022 at 11:50 am

    My best friends just keep leaving me out of everything. We were all so close, and now they are just excluding me. I feel so empty, they are my only friends. But i have to move on, because they broke my heart. I have to move on. I have to leave the past behind me, and start fresh.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on January 27, 2022 at 1:29 pm

      Jessica, thanks for stopping by and reading about how to overcome the loss of a friendship. What a difficult season you are in and I am sure it is quite painful. May you find hope, guidance, and a way to move on through prayer and Scripture. I also hope you can either restore or find new friends! Many blessings, Mary

  32. Lori on December 11, 2022 at 4:16 am

    I am currently 6 months in on trying to recover from a lost friendship of 7 years over a conflict. I still cry at least once a week over the loss and no matter how much I pray I can’t seem to move forward. The loss isn’t just mine but my whole family’s as we were friends with their whole family. We have tried multiple times to reconcile but I believe bitterness has set root in this persons heart. I plan to reread the article again as it did bring me comfort.

    • Mary Rooney Armand on December 12, 2022 at 11:08 am

      I am sorry to hear about your lost friendship. I pray you are comforted by the love of God as you grieve. It is never easy to walk through such a huge loss. Blessings to you and your family!

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