5 Fun Tips for a Simple Christmas Focused on Christ

While listening to my friend explain her simple Christmas traditions, I looked around and felt the spirit of Christmas everywhere. Her home looked, smelled, and felt like Christmas.

I was intrigued by her family’s approach to celebrating the holidays without stress or exhausting busyness.

A simple Christmas sounded like a comforting, freeing idea. I decided to learn how to capture the essence of Christmas without losing the joy of the season.

This was in 1998, so we could not Google ideas, search on Pinterest, or shop online.

My visions of what Christmas should look like came from movies, my own experiences, and those of other families. (Imagine that!)

We had only one child at the time and had not given much thought to how we wanted our family to celebrate the birth of Jesus.

I imagined a simple Christmas and what traditions I wanted to embrace.

With my poofy ’90s hair and a baby on my hip, I wondered, what would our family’s simple Christmas look like?

What is a Simple Christmas?

When we hear the term ‘simple,’ it can make us think of vanilla, plain, and dull, which it can be.

Sometimes plain and boring is good, but that is not the ‘simple’ I wanted for our holidays.

The simple Christmas that appeals to me is humble, authentic and pure without losing the joy and fun that so many of us look forward to.

How can we have a meaningful, simple Christmas that is still exciting and fun for our family?

After all, the birth of Jesus Christ is the most significant life-changing event in the history of the world. It calls for a grand celebration. But what does that look like?

How can we keep the origins of Christmas alive without becoming lost in a land of distractions that we don’t want to live in?

With a focus on simple, relevant, teachable, and special, I set out to develop my family’s Christmas traditions.

As my kids have grown, through years of adjustments and age-appropriate changes, the spirit of a simple Christmas still drives our holidays today.

How do you Simplify Christmas

Since it was harder to find information on how do you simplify Christmas, I began to read magazines and ask other families, “How do you simplify Christmas without losing its meaning and keeping kids interested?”

Of course, the answers on how to simplify Christmas were all over the place because every family has its own flavor and threshold for what celebrating Jesus’ birth looks like.

How your family simplifies Christmas can look different, but we developed some guiding principles for a simple Christmas that was still a fun celebration.

Here are four thoughts on how to simplify Christmas:

• Keep Christmas Christ-Centered 

The first thing we did to simplify Christmas was to keep it Christ-centered and focus on the true meaning of the holidays, regardless of our circumstances or how old our children were.

We celebrate Christmas to honor the birth of Jesus. Period. Without the birth of Christ, Christmas would not exist.

The birth of Christ is not just a story; it is a real event that happened over 2,000 years ago. Jesus was born to save and change us.

Keeping a Christ-centered Christmas is the driving force to keep the season less stressful and more meaningful.

• Focus on Simple Christmas Gifts

While researching, I realized we had already begun to lavish our only child with gifts.

My gift-giving intentions were not bad, but what I thought you focused on at Christmas, buying and giving gifts, was off.

Now, don’t get me wrong —our family loves giving gifts —but they can take over and disrupt a simple Christmas.

We decided to be intentional about choosing simple Christmas gifts that are meaningful, less commercialized, and more authentic.

Our first idea for simple Christmas gifts was to limit the number of presents our children received.

The idea of giving each child only three gifts comes from the wise men visiting the manger and delivering three gifts to Jesus.

Another newer idea for simple Christmas gifts is the 4 gift challenge: something they want, need, wear or read.

Our gift-giving system wasn’t an exact formula but a guideline. It helped us remove some of the anxiety associated with picking out gifts.

Each year, we made adjustments and showed restraint, especially when our kids were small.

One rule we still follow is not to buy every toy or gadget that our kids or that our hearts desire. Simple Christmas gifts are thoughtful instead of impulsive and leave room for character-building, gratitude, and contentment.

• Avoid the Commercialization of Christmas

The second thing I decided to do for a simple Christmas was to avoid getting caught up in the commercialization of the Holiday.

There are opportunities, despite the intense focus on shopping, to shine a light on Christ during the holidays.

And there are some commercialized aspects of the holiday that our family has enjoyed.

To avoid the commercialization of Christmas, we try to focus on Christ’s birth instead of parties, events, spending, and gift-giving.

We are intentional about what we do and how much money we spend during Christmas.

This helps direct the focus to gratitude for what we have rather than expectation for what we do not.

• Do Simple Acts of Kindness During Christmas

The third thing we decided to simplify Christmas was to look around and see who might be sad or suffering during the Holiday, and reach out to them in some way.

There are many ways to demonstrate simple acts of kindness, individually or with our kids. We just need to notice others’ needs.

For our family, simple acts of kindness have included bringing meals and toys to families, filling boxes for Operation Christmas Child, visiting nursing homes, and inviting friends and family to join us for lunch.

How to Celebrate Christmas with Family

Our family maintains the emphasis on celebrating a simple Christmas that is still fun each year.

Here are five tips on how to celebrate Christmas with friends and family to enjoy a simple Christmas that honors the birth of Christ:

#1 A Simple Christmas: Read the Story of Jesus’ Birth 

Reading the Bible with your children is a special experience that connects you on a deeper level. This intimacy is magnified when it is the story of Jesus’ birth.

When our kids were young, on Christmas Eve, we would sit together and use animated voices and stuffed animals to tell the story.

We love to read from the book of Luke, but the story can also be found in the book of Matthew.

When our children got older, we let them take turns reading from the Bible and performing their own version of the story.

Once our children hit the teenage years, we pried phones away and made them sit and act interested, even though they had heard the story many times before!

My friend Ann says her family does not open one gift until the cinnamon rolls are in the oven and the story of Jesus’ birth is read from the Bible.

#2 A Simple Christmas: Have a Birthday Party for Jesus

Every Christmas Eve, we would bake a cake for Jesus and decorate it. When our kids were younger, we would have a special birthday party with candles, balloons, and party plates.

Now that our kids are older, we either bake or buy a treat, but still acknowledge that Jesus’ birth is a big deal.

A birthday party for Jesus continues to remind us why we celebrate the holidays and keeps the focus on a simple Christmas.

#3 A Simple Christmas: Make Christmas Morning Exciting 

Our kids would sit outside our bedroom waiting for the designated time they were allowed to wake us up.

Everyone has to wait because the opening of gifts is a family activity where we learn to share, be patient, and be happy for each other.

Although we were conscious of a gift guideline, we worked to make gifts fair but still a fun part of the day.

The number of gifts does not have to dictate the experience to the point of stress.

Gifts can be grouped or even reduced if a significant gift is involved.

A specific number of gifts is not a hard-and-fast rule in our home (although we do stay in the 3-4 range), but it helps keep the focus on quality rather than quantity.

My friend Shelly says Christmas morning is a special time. Someone in the family runs to the nativity scene and turns baby Jesus over, and the celebration that Jesus is alive begins. Christmas morning is still one of their favorite times.

#4 A Simple Christmas: Have Family Sharing Time

Christmas afternoon always involves family sharing time. When our kids were younger, they would put on a talent show. The whole family was required to sit in the lined-up chairs and watch our kids, usually in Christmas costumes, as they sang and danced to Christmas carols.

To keep the emphasis on Christ and a simple Christmas, we have joined with another family and put on a live nativity.

As my kids got older, a Karaoke machine was brought in for entertainment.

We pray, spend time together, and express gratitude. Now our family goes on a long walk, and everyone must participate!

Family sharing time requires little effort. It is a great way to have intentional time and conversation with those we love and fits the definition of a simple Christmas tradition.

#5 A Simple Christmas: Plan an Experience Gift

One Christmas when my kids were teenagers, we did not exchange gifts. On Christmas Eve, we announced that instead of gifts, we were leaving on a family vacation. It was an exciting and different way to celebrate, and it became our first experience gift for our kids.

After a quick Christmas lunch, we grabbed our bags and headed out for a few days. I was worried they would be disappointed, but it was a wonderful time together, and they did not miss getting gifts. (Well, most of them didn’t!)

There are many experience gifts for kids that can loosen the stress of gift-giving and help teach the whole family what a simple Christmas is.

I hope you enjoyed these five tips for celebrating a simple Christmas with family.

A simple Christmas can be accomplished in many ways; what matters most is that we intentionally focus on Jesus during this special time of year.

I would love to hear about your simple Christmas traditions and what your family does to celebrate the birth of Jesus!

Author 

Mary Rooney Armand

Mary is the founder and writer for the faith-based blog Butterflyliving.org. Her writing is featured in multiple anthologies and websites, and she is the author of Uniquely Made: Understanding and Embracing Your Identity in Christ and Life-Changing Stories, a devotional collection available on Amazon. Get to know Mary and the other authors of ButterflyLiving on YouTube.